For. Shooore..

Here's a little bit of dress envy..lol

very pretty right?

So, here are a few food items I'm liking for da wedding:

Sweet potatoe fries

fruit plates

fruit ca bobs

oh, and vegie ka bobs

some steak

Salads

Cucumber sandwiches!!

Maybe a lil deer meat

And for the cakes:

Cheese cake

Chocolate cake

Vanilla cake

Cake with fillings

heres our gorgeous cake topper!.........for now.
haha we're debatting this little ones!

Drinks:

Bring your own wine or champagne only!

And these;

All about the wedding. ish.

So I have a new inspiration for the bouquets! take a look.

okay, heres what I'm thinking, since we are having the wedding out in a field, we can use the look of this mixed with yellow and pink flowers! I love it, I think it might win, but give me your ideas!

Oh, and since I'm thinking DIYing the invites again, and heres a sample!

We'll have a pink border instead of black, the flowery/paisley background can stay, and, we'll it will be mixed up a lil. You will see! lol oh and Micheals and hobby lobby have a little corner rounder to help you round the corners of your paper for invites and what not! okay so, I was never really intent on having a card box but this...this changed my mind!

Of course in our wedding colors, but how cool is that! I think that it is mostly made out of fabric, but we would instead use paper. I am so excited! Pretty sure I've got my self a project!! ha ha we've got enough boxes from moving! I'll let you know how it goes!

Oh, and guess what? I found my self a very helpful maid of honor. I'm excited. Anyways, I know know how we are going to do the save the dates/ invitations! Like this I think for front we will use a picture of us. I have a horrible habit of falling in love with little things.

One rough day that is ready to end...

see this is still a lil to high, but it looks good with the color choices..



I really like the suspenders and the vest! Except I would have the vest come down just a little. Maybe be a three button.









Well, it started off pretty well, but it has yet to get a whole lot better. But we'll get to that later right now, I want to post some pictures about the outfits I would love to see the guys wear! lol

Ready, Set, Go!

Well, hubby, myself and cousinA have gotten an apartment! Its a cute little thing; 1200square foot, 2.5 bath, 2bed, kitchenette, cute living room, upstairs, fridge, washer/dryer, dishwasher. We are actually at cousins house watching movies chilling. So far we've watched "Mall Cop" and
"Max Payne". WE've got two more.

Anywho, I am having a horrible time trying to find a freaking photographer. I had one, almost had another, now I am back at freaking square one. So, back to craigslist or where ever I could go lol. I found a really good boudoir photographer

(I wrote this on halloween!!, just didn't get a chance to post it! lol)

Wedding Concrete

Well,

I have a few things that are now set for sure...

We are going to get married on the field by Mr.Bakers parents house. Its actually very pretty, I"m only a little worried about chair and tent rental. And we are going to use babys breath as our flowers!

I'm just wondering on how to do the boutaniers. I don't want them to be to bland or plain. And I still want to make pomanders and incorporate our wedding colors into them.

Never Mind the house Give me more DEBT!!

Well, husband and I have decided to scratch the idea of a house and find a college to go to.

*pause* our puppy just started barking at the microwave! we are poppy popcorn!

Back to subject:

I want to be a marine biologist and the mister wants to go further into music. He is in a band and wants to further his music education! So now, one of his two cousins in the band wants to go with him. Said he doesn't even care where, which is good for me because I can almost talk the Mister into going to somewhere in California. That way we will all get the best of both world, the guys their music school and I my marine biology.

Or teaching.

The weather is getting cold here which makes me happy we have our car.. You know how people will talk to their car? well, I yell. It has some trouble shifting, but it does warm up quickly which is good. One: I'm a lil sick and Two: I can not stand the cold. Speaking of health! Great news!! We just got a gym membership! At World Gym and the place is amazing! HUGE NICE AND SANITARY! It feels so good to work out and get that pain... yay.

Also, I talked the Mister into starting a gluten free diet! I am so excited we have yet to completely commit to the new life style because the recipe books I ordered are not here so I don't have any recipes. So if you happen to have an gluten free recipes they would be greatly apprieated!

Wedding Updates:

what do you think? I love it. Exept it would be in our wedding colors. So pink, yellow and grey.

We have yet to make our invites and I'm going stir crazy about that. I would like to make them myself but I get worried that might cost too much or take too long.

a cross between this one and either of these two would be perfect!

My hubby is calling me to bed...

sweet dreams!

Housing...

Well, My new husband is sitting next to me on my mom's computer looking for a home for us. There was a small fued, I left, and came back. It wasn't between he and I, it was between he and his father. Over me because of his father bad temper.


Anyways, I am very excited. We have already seen two that we really really like! They are HUD owned and nice, in very very good condition. It's very exciting. We finally paid the sales tax so that is a huge burden off our shoulders, but now i've got a smaller one; finding a new job. Well one that pays a little better, I'm a waitress.





I'm still planning our second wedding! haha and I am loving the paper flowers! Look at these you can't even tell they are fake!


I've just got to find how to make them....help?
There are a few I've heard of, coffee filters, regular paper, but that don't look that real, then again, I haven't tried it. So, after I do, I'll post the pictures for you!

The New Car

I am so very excited! I am finally getting a new car. And it is truly new, right off the dealership parking lot!! yay! haha It's going to be the Honda Fit, and it's going to be amazing. I love it, and so does the MR.

Well, the stupid thing won't let me save the pictures to put on here...grrr. I'm looking for a new job, hopefully at a daycare! I'm wanting to be an elementary teacher, or well, just work at a daycare. I'll post pictures once we get the car!!

Thus Far

Things have been hectic.
I still don't have a car. We did get the check, but have to wait seven days before we can get the money. So, I'm carpooling with the Mr. and driving the stick by myself. Which is scarier than crap!! I peeled out(on accident) because i was on a hill and at a green stop light. It was in front of the police station. My next car is not going to be stick! haha
I've made a few list that were inspired by one of the awesome bees! And Since the elopement, we have decided to DIY pretty much everything! So I will have A LOT of photos to share! I'm not quite sure where to start, probably the invites! I'm not sure exactly how I want them to look. I've got a few ideas and tons more pictures. But i'll have to upload them later! Sorry guys.

What a weekend!

Well, we did it. We are married. And if feels so good! haha I feel whole now. As if, I'm where I'm supposed to be. I don't really know how to explain it. But I'm sure all the married ladies know what I mean. The whole thing helped me to realize that the wedding(well the one in june) is going to be so short(the ceremony). And honestly the only thing that is really worth the money is the photographer! Which by the way I wish we would have gotten more pictures. The Judges secretary took ONE picture. But I'm glad we got that one. Well, okay one more thing I do regret on hindsight, is that some family wasn't there. I never really thought about it you know, you elope. Its just you and your other. But it would have been nice to see the looks on my papa and dads face. I know the one of my moms- horrible snotty tears. The Mr. almost cried, he teared up and so did I. Except I was very giggly!



The Judge kept pronouncing my name wrong and it made me giggle more. It's still alittle hard to believe that we are married. I'm still living with my mom. But I am slowly but surely moving in with the Mr. and his parents. I almost had him convinced on getting an apartment, but he rethought it(ofcourse) and decided that we would go ahead and live with his parents. Which I guess isn't such a bad idea because it is saving money so that we can get a house.







Mom and I are getting along better! which is nice but I still do think that the only way we'll be able to have a healthy mother daughter relationship is for me to move out.















okay! enough ramble! haha I'll ramble more later it's time for wedding talk!!



I saw a post on weddingbee(a very addictive wedding website!!) where there were candy necklaces and I'm pretty sure I love that.
© Mary Mervis Photography

Don't they look like they are having fun! haha I will have to ask the mister about this before I put it on the list!

The big one eight!

Yup, that's right. It's my birthday and i am 18! It's exciting.
So far not much has happened. One very sad thing did though, a friend/acquaintance from church lost her baby about an hour ago. She'd gone in to premature labor(for the second time), the doctors where hoping the lungs were developed enough that the baby would be able to live, but it didn't. So if you could all pray for her and her family, it would be greatly appreciated!

I'm getting my fiance a hell raiser guitar that he's wanted for a while now. It cost as much as my wedding dress did, but I'm selling that and should have some left over to go toward this. Guitar Center has a one year no interest thing, that I'm going to be taking up so I can get it for him. Originally I was getting it because all of the bands equipment was stolen except for a few thing( bass guitar and an acoustic), but thank GOD it was all found last night. The ring leader turned him self in. So I am still going to get it, it's going to be a wedding present. We plan on going to the justice of the peace tomorrow and then moving in to an apartment together. I know that seems a bit early and I need to really find who I am. But I've chosen my path and know that as long as we keep GOD in our relationship we will make it.

I'm sure I'll update later! maybe add pictures! But, gotta run and get the guitar!